Has honesty in this world been forgotten? Honesty is a forgotten requirement among far too many people. It is replaced in our day by convenience, just enough truth to get by.
Dishonesty is the common word of today. Cheating, is an almost common occurrence in many of today’s schools, both in the lower grades and at graduate levels. Lying is viewed among political aspirants as acceptable conduct, just as long as you get elected. Many employers suffer substantial losses because of employees who steal from the company. It has been estimated that 80% of all shoplifting is done by the employees.
It is not always easy to tell the truth. In fact, sometimes, it is very hard. However, to do less is to incur the disfavor of God, to erode spiritual character, and to make life a little more difficult for whatever is involved in the lie, whether it’s telling or its reception.
The art of the deal can be easily defined as the art of lying. The more subtle forms of untruth are used at random and constitute the large majority of this disrespect for integrity. These forms include such things as misrepresentation, innuendo, half-truths, plagiarism, misquotation, exaggeration, flattery, and perhaps the most subtle of all untruths, excuses.
Half-truths are one of the most effective of the Devil’s devices. He has always used them with great effectiveness. It was a half-truth that got Eve into trouble. It seems to me that almost all sin is involved in some way or the other in half-truths. They offer the best of both worlds–enough “truth” to soothe the conscience, but mixed with an excuse so as to allow you to do what you want. Actually, half-truths are not truths at all–not even half. They are merely error dressed up like the truth.
Truth and honesty relate to all areas of life, even the smallest matters. It is just important that you tell the truth about little things as about big things. Honesty must prevail in areas of the insignificant just as it does in areas of the important. To lie about small matters continually is a dangerous business, a very bad habit that is bound to cause pain and heartache. There is no place where integrity does not fit, where it is acceptable to appeal to what is not so.
Truth and honesty are products of the heart (Lk 8:15). From that seat, they must radiate into every area of life, the home, the family, the community, and the church (Rom. 12:17 f; 2 Cor. 8:21).
The marital relationship is dependent on trust for its survival. I believe that dealing treacherously with the truth is behind most every divorce. Trust and truth are akin to one another. One cannot exist without the other. Trust is what makes happy marriages.
Most of the problems encountered in the family have to do with someone’s mishandling of truth. There just cannot be peace and harmony in the family when there is an untruth. On the other hand, peace will reign admirably when the scepter of truth is in her right hand.
It would literally shock some if we knew how truth is poorly managed when brethren have problems. Preachers have been known to misquote, misapply, and leave false impressions, all in the name of “exposing” some brother with whom they disagree.
Honesty is the badge of the Christian. It is necessary for his own personal peace (Heb. 13:18). It has a profound effect on those who are in his sphere of influence (Col. 3:9). For the faithful Christian, honesty is not just the best policy, it is the only policy!